We all want to believe in the fairytale - that if you love your little one enough, screen time just works itself out...
That they’ll only watch safe content. That they won’t click the wrong thing. That your own phone habits won’t shape theirs. That love will be enough to keep childhood safe.
BUT... THAT'S NOT REAL LIFE
In real life, you’re cooking dinner, handing over the tablet so you can get ten minutes’ peace. In real life, they’re swiping faster than you thought they could - copying what they’ve seen you do. In real life, autoplay takes them somewhere you didn’t intend, and you’re left worrying what they just saw.
You love them more than anything. But love alone can’t block the pop-ups, protect their innocence, or stop little eyes copying your every move.
The truth?
That fairytale is just that -
a fairytale.
And it’s quietly failing parents everywhere.
Because love isn’t the problem.
Lack of support is.
The real problem? It’s that no one ever showed you how much your own digital choices would shape theirs. No one taught you how to set calm, clear routines before habits stick.
You’re not failing. You’re just parenting in a world that no one was ready for.
The real secret to keeping your Tots safer online?
Calm, confident routines. The kind that protect their innocence and show them balance from the very start.
BUT HERE’S THE PROBLEM… SETTING THOSE ROUTINES IS HARD.
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If you’ve ever handed over the tablet just to get dinner made, you’ve probably faced the tantrums when it’s time to turn it off. And when that happens — again and again — it wears you down. You start to question yourself: Am I doing the right thing? Am I already setting bad habits?
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But giving in doesn’t feel any better. Because deep down, you know screens aren’t neutral — autoplay, ads, and “kid-friendly” apps can expose them to things they’re not ready for. You don’t want to wrap them in bubble wrap. You don’t want to parent in fear. You just want to keep them safe, calm, and curious — without screens stealing too much of their childhood.
When we talk to parents of Tots, we hear things like:
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“I just needed 10 minutes’ peace, but then I felt awful for handing them the tablet.”
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“I worry they’ll click onto something scary or inappropriate without me even noticing.”
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“They copy everything I do with my phone, and it scares me I’m setting the wrong example.”
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“Screens sneak in so easily… I don’t want it to become a habit I can’t undo later.”
IN FACT, MOST PARENTS WE SPEAK TO FEEL UNSURE HOW TO BALANCE SCREENS, SAFETY, AND CHILDHOOD FOR THEIR 0–4 YEAR OLD.
HERE'S THE REALITY
No one ever taught you how to guide a toddler’s digital world in a way that’s calm and effective.
And that makes sense…
Think about it: you learned how to change nappies, how to baby-proof a room, maybe even how to puree peas.
But how to handle screen-time tantrums, autoplay rabbit holes, or the way your tot copies everything you do on your phone?
That’s a skill no one ever handed you.
You, your Tot, your relationship, and the precious early years you share deserve so much more than guesswork.. You deserve tools. You deserve support. And your child deserves to grow up safe, supported - and still allowed to be a kid.
That's exactly why we created...
SAFER Tots
A practical, powerful, and always-on digital platform that gives you everything you need to stay calm, clear, and in control — even when digital parenting feels messy, emotional, or overwhelming.
With expert guidance, real-world tips, and instant access through the BH2H app you’ll know exactly how to set gentle, age-appropriate routines that stick; model the healthy habits you want your child to grow into; keep your little one safe without panic, guilt, or battles.
Because the habits you shape now? They’ll protect them for years to come.
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Say hello to SAFER Tots
Because you deserve more than tantrums, guilt, and second-guessing every screen decision.
Forget giving in, feeling bad, or hoping
“they’ll grow out of it.”
With the BH2H SAFER Tots programme, you’ll get the support, tools, and calm routines to shape healthy digital habits - and protect their innocence while they’re still little.
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Fewer tantrums = more calm moments
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No more “just one more show!” - just gentle, confident routines
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Builds balance, safety, and curiosity - right from the start
Because the safest tweens…
start as well-guided tots.
DID YOU KNOW...
Science says digital safety for little ones isn’t really about blocking apps or banning screens.
It’s about shaping calm, consistent routines - because the way your toddler learns to use (and switch off) screens now sets the tone for years to come. Research shows that when young children experience gentle structure and predictable boundaries, they feel more secure, build stronger trust with parents, and develop healthier habits around tech as they grow.
But, here's the flip side.
When screens are used without limits - or when every switch-off turns into a battle - kids are more likely to cling harder to devices and resist routines later. The frustration isn’t just about “one more show.” It’s about not knowing what to expect.
And here’s where it gets really important:
Children who learn early that screens have a time and place - modelled calmly by their parents - are less anxious, more resilient, and far better prepared for the digital world when it does open up to them.
This kind of trust is about warmth, structure, and everyday balance that teaches them screens are just one part of life - not the whole of it.
In fact, research shows that early digital guidance leads to fewer tech conflicts and safer online choices all the way into the teenage years.
That’s exactly what you’ll learn inside the SAFER Tots Programme:
Grounded in the latest research on early childhood and digital habits, our AI Parent Cyber Buddy, bite-sized video library, and supportive parent community give you the tools to set calm, consistent routines that stick - right from the start.
Because when boundaries are gentle, routines are predictable, and children feel safe, they learn balance early. And those early habits? They’re the foundation your tot will carry into childhood - and all the way through to their teens.
AI Cyber Buddy – Instant answers, only from trusted, expert-reviewed content.
100+ Videos – Fast, clear shorts on real digital dangers.
Built for Parents – No fluff. No jargon. No judgement.
Ask Anything, Anytime – Real help when you & your child need it most.
Expert-Led, Always Safe – No AI guesswork. Just proven guidance.
Deep Dive Ready – Learn more when time or interest allows.
One App. Total Support. – Answers, learning, habits — all in one place.
Here’s what’s waiting for you inside the SAFER Tots Programme:
✅ Real-world ways to guide your little one’s screen use - without guilt, meltdowns, or second-guessing yourself. (Because calm routines now build healthier habits later.)
✅ Why screen-time tantrums aren’t defiance - they’re part of learning limits. (We’ll show you how to set boundaries that actually stick.)
✅ How to introduce screens in age-appropriate ways - without letting autoplay, ads, or “kid-safe” apps take over.
✅ The secret to modelling good habits - because toddlers copy everything you do with your phone.
✅ The right language to use when saying “time’s up” - so transitions feel calmer, not like battles.
✅ Confidence-building tools for parents - even if you’re unsure about tech, apps, or when to start.
✅ 100+ short, easy-to-watch videos - no jargon, no overwhelm, just simple guidance that fits into busy family life.
✅ Step-by-step support to lay strong routines now - before habits become harder to unpick later.
✅ The key to raising curious, confident kids - without screens stealing their attention or innocence.
PLUS: Try it free for 7 days - no pressure, no risk.
How to go from “Pleeeese mama, one more” to “Okay, we play...”
1. Purchase the SAFER Tots Programme and get instant access to the Be Hard to Hack app.
Start today or dip in when you need it - you’re in control.
2. Use the tools at the exact moment you need them.
Our ChatGPT style AI Parent Cyber Buddy (Major Mike) gives you calm, confident answers in seconds — backed by 100s of expert-led video shorts.
✅ Know what to say when screen time ends in tears
✅ Set gentle routines that actually stick
✅ Learn how to model healthy phone habits yourself
✅ Handle “first exposures” without panic or guilt
✅ Turn everyday moments into digital learning ones
3. Start Parenting with Calm Authority
Use what you’ve learned with your toddler — and see the shift.
Fewer tantrums. Smoother routines. Healthier habits.
Because the safest kids? Start as well-guided tots.
So Ready, Let's Do This!
You’re getting calm, practical advice from a real cyber expert - and a fellow parent who gets it.
Hi, I’m Major Mike - dad of three, veteran British Army officer, and founder of Be Hard to Hack.
I built this platform because I know what it’s like to lie awake at night wondering what your kids are seeing online - and not knowing how to help without pushing them away.
So I took everything I’ve learned from decades in cybersecurity and parenthood… and built the tool I wish I’d had:
Ready to take back the lead - and feel calm and in control again?
Imagine parenting in a way that feels natural, confident, and actually works before habits take root.
That’s exactly what the SAFER Tots Programme inside the BH2H app helps you do.
Here’s what you’ll get:
✅ Instant access to your AI Parent Cyber Buddy (Major Mike) - ready 24/7 with calm, confident answers in the exact moment you need help
✅ 100+ expert-led video shorts to help you set routines, handle tantrums, and model healthy habits without guilt
✅ Age-appropriate strategies for managing first screen-time, favourite shows, and early device requests
✅ Step-by-step guidance for creating calm boundaries - without turning every transition into a meltdown
✅ Support that grows with your tot - because what works at 2 won’t work at 4
✅ No long courses. No overwhelm. Just clear, practical tools you can use in daily life - right when you need them
Most parents feel like screens are in control.
You’ll be one of the few leading with calm, confidence, and clarity.
